After learning that she was expecting a baby {hooray!}, a reader sent me the following question:
“I would love to know of anything you would make yourself over buying.
Things you bought that you realize now that you really didn’t need.
Your favorite carrier/car seat/strollers (jogging/regular) and places to buy them for less if you know of good options.
What items would you buy at a garage sale vs buy new? …
I’m pretty much starting with a blank page and trying to do the best I can without spending a fortune. :)”
Oh goodness…all you Moms out there already know that beginning to navigate the world of baby products can be rather daunting – to say the least! The first time I became pregnant, I went to Target before I had even had my first doctor’s appointment and started scanning things for my registry. I had no idea what I was doing and had researched absolutely nothing. Great way to start out, huh?
And if you enter Babies R’ Us without knowing what you need – prepare to be overwhelmed, Momma.
So what do you need for a baby?
I’m going to propose three lists:
- Baby Basics
- Beyond Basics
- Beyond Buying
I’ll share the basics today & the other 2 categories tomorrow.
Let’s start with the basics, shall we?
- Food: Whether you choose to breastfeed or do formula, this is something you need to provide for your wee one.
- Place to sleep: Many options here – but whether you do co-sleeping, bassinet, crib, moses basket, pack&play – baby needs a safe place to sleep.
- Clothes to wear: Even if you plan to wrap your child up in a blanket every day, they need to wear something. Personally, I go with normal clothes instead of the blanket route. And you know what? Babies don’t need as many clothes as the stores would have you believe. I mean, I know – oh how I know – how insanely adorable the teeny outfits are. But you don’t need 50. If you do laundry 2x/week and allow for 1 possible blowout a day, you would have plenty of clothes with 7 outfits. And definitely consider your diapering status – disposable or cloth. We currently use disposable, but there are amazing options with cloth diapering that are so easy to use!
Now, I can hear the baby police racing down the street already protesting that there are other life-saving things I didn’t include. Some people swear by a baby swing. Others by an exersaucer. And still others by a playmat. Join me tomorrow as I share the final 2 categories:
- Beyond Basics
- Beyond Buying
And get ready to share your favorite item{s} for baby!
Comments
7 responses to “Baby Basics”
I love these kinds of lists! I think you’re exactly right on this. The basics aren’t much 🙂 I’d say buy the place to sleep new (or from a very good friend), but buy clothes from garage sales or consignment sales. Since most people don’t follow your 7 outfits rule (ha!), there are tons of baby clothes for sale that look barely worn!
It’s SO easy to go overboard with baby stuff! Now with four, it makes me laugh when I think back to my first and the stuff I thought I needed! Lucy had the bare minimum of baby gear and it was perfect. =)
It’s amazing what experience teaches, isn’t it?!
Oh, I’m a major fan of yard sales for clothing!! I’ve found amazing deals for my whole family at yard sales!
I have a similar post I’ve been working on…for, oh, about 6 months. 🙂 I agree-you don’t need much, not nearly least as much as we’re told!
While I was pregnant with Justus, I went to BRU to make a registry (because I got a free gift card for doing so), and I was shocked at how much more was “recommended” than what had been recommend just 4 years earlier when I made a registry with Hana Kate’s pregnancy. (Poor Eden didn’t get a registry. ;))
We don’t even use a crib, but baby definitely does have a place to sleep! We had 3 outfits for Justus to start out with (perks of not knowing we were having a new gender), but somehow enough appeared after he was born. 🙂 And it was much easier to manage with far fewer.
Less stuff usually means much less stress–not having to decide between 15 different types of 1 item you don’t need at all, multiplied by about 20 items.
Very true! Less decisions = less stress. And the less thinking I have to do right after giving birth, the better. 😉
YES! And hopefully this post will help especially new mommas who are in that overwhelmed state after seeing all the “essential items” recommended by stores! Less decisions = less stress!