Apr 222014
 

“How are you?”
Fine.

“Really?”
She kept looking at me. I think it was because I was on the verge of tears.
I decided she cared. So I told her what I was burdened about. And she listened. The whole conversation took approximately 2 1/2 minutes. But it made me think.

Jesus tells us to bear other people’s burdens. But you can’t bear someone’s burdens if they won’t share them with you.

There are 2 kinds of burdens: the obvious & the not-so-obvious.

Let’s start with the obvious. These are the ones where I don’t have to know anything about a person to realize they need help. Many times, “obvious burdens” are physical. A person just had surgery or a baby {or both}; you bring them a meal. There are a million examples.

Then there are the not-so-obvious burdens: ones that aren’t readily apparent. They might be physical burdens – a debilitating condition that nobody understands, an issue that’s just too personal to share – or they might be emotional or spiritual burdens. These are the burdens that remain secret. They become heavy to the person carrying them. And yes, we are commanded to cast our burdens on the Lord. But we’re also taught to bear other’s burdens.

How can people bear our burdens when we aren’t willing to share them?
It’s simple: they can’t.

Many times, the reason we don’t share our burdens with others is because we’re afraid to admit that we need help.

But isn’t that what God uses to knit hearts together? He uses needy people to meet the needs of other needy people. Too often, I pretend I’m not needy. As if I’m there to help others but there’s no way they can help me. Oh, hello pride.

Let’s just get it out there. We’re all needy. We need God. We need each other.

Yes. That person you don’t care for? The one who is in your life and you wish they weren’t? You need ‘em.

Basically, we all might be better off if we just started each conversation like this: “Hi. I need you.”
But don’t really do that. Because that would be weird.

Challenge: view all the people God brings in your life today as if they’re there for a reason.
{because actually, they are.}

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Apr 152014
 

2 weeks ago, I decided to take a little break from writing. It was a good time to think, pray, talk, and write things that weren’t going to be shared with the world. The results of my time away are a couple changes for this site.

Change #1: no more comments. I love comments. I really, really love them. And that’s why I feel the need to turn them off. Since that probably doesn’t make sense, let me give you a peek at a conversation that has taken place many times in my home:

Me: “Nobody’s commented on this post! But people are reading it – why aren’t they commenting?!
Jonathan {aka husband/psychiatrist}: “Do you comment on blogs you read?”
Me: “Pretty much never.”
Jonathan: [silence]
Me: “That’s not the point!!!”

Needless to say, I place too much value on comments. And if I get none, I assume I wrote a lame post. When in reality, I rarely post comments to blogs I read, so why should I expect people to post comments on my site? I shouldn’t. But I do anyway. So I’ve decided for the mental health of myself + my patient husband that I should turn comments off. As always, if you ever want to reach out, know that you can contact me here. Just remember that I have 3 incredibly cute + needy kiddos, so my email time is quite limited.

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Change #2: Grace. for myself. AKA less posts. I’m pretty motivated by goals. And when I made a goal over 3 years ago to post 3x/week, I stuck with it. It was a challenge I enjoyed & my husband encouraged me to pursue.

Now, I find myself in a different season of life. I have 3 kids as opposed to 1. I’m planning to begin preschool with my oldest in the fall. Those 2 facts {along with some other things} mean that I’m just a bit busier than when I first began blogging. Just a bit.

Over this last week, I considered whether I should stop blogging. And in talking with my husband about it, we decided that I really do enjoy writing. And it’s something I want to continue. But maybe 3x/week is a little more than I should expect of myself.

So I’m going to cut back. My goal is 1 post/week. Some weeks I’ll post more. And some weeks {like when my schedule gets crazy in the summer due to being a youth pastor family} I may not post at all. If you’re interested in reading, the easiest way to stay current is to subscribe by email. That way, you don’t have to keep coming back to check the site.

And that’s a wrap. I’ve gotta say, it feels a little bit like the end of an era. I mean, 3 years is a long time for anything, ya know?

But I’m excited about it. Already, there are things I’ve been able to do with my extra time and I love it. 

us I mean, when would I have had time to take ridiculous amazing pictures like this?

Thanks for your part on this journey with me. It really would not be as fun to write if I didn’t have you to write to. How ’bout a big, squishy internet hug?
oh nevermind, we’ll just leave it at ‘thanks.’

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Apr 032014
 

There are some times when I don’t have very clear thoughts. Actually, that happens a lot. And I feel like I’m just throwing out a bunch of thoughts all at once – some of them true and good; others not so much. I call these my ‘throw up thoughts.’ Forgive the expression.

For the past few months, I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, talking, and praying about this blog. There’s no way I can write out everything I’m thinking. But I kind of feel like I owe you all an explanation. And at the same time, I don’t exactly know what to say. Because it’s all still in the thinking mode right now.

So instead of writing out all my ‘throw up thoughts’, I’ll just say this: I’m going to take a little break from posting. So that I will have more time to pray. and think. And I will come back – probably in a week or two – because I really do love writing. In the meantime, thanks for your patience.

Don’t forget to enter the giveaway for Treasuring Christ When Your Hands are Full! I will send an email out to the 2 winners next week. {you can also read the first chapter here for free!}

Thanks, friends.

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Mar 312014
 

Several weeks ago, I received this book in the mail:Treasuring Christ When Your Hands are Full by Gloria Furman

Crossway asked if I would consider reading Treasuring Christ When Your Hands are Full by Gloria Furman. While I planned to look it over, I wasn’t planning to share it with you unless I really loved it.

Let me tell you – I really loved it. Many times, I found myself reading, underlining, and then thinking about the truths later on during the day. This book is not broken into devotional segments {such as the devotional booklet, Gospel Meditations for Women}, but the chapters are relatively short and very easy to read which makes it perfect for busy moms.

The author, Gloria Furman, is a mom to 4 and a pastor’s wife, so she is no stranger to busy times. I found her writing style to be refreshingly practical but very much Gospel centered. This book will refocus your attention on Jesus and encourage you to parent with a focus on eternity. If you are a mom who is feeling overwhelmed but wanting to treasure Christ in your every day tasks, I highly recommend this book to you.

I underlined/starred/drew arrows to many portions of this book. But I’ve chosen some of my favorite quotations to share with you below so that you can get a taste of what this book is all about.

“The greatest problem a mother has is not a lack of creativity, accomplishment, or skill, but her inability to love God and others as Jesus loves her.” [page 20]

“We need to remember that God is no less good to us when we find ourselves in a battle of wills with a preschooler … than he was as his Son dragged a cross up a hill that Friday two thousand years ago.” [page 55]

“We must boast in the gospel, because in it God mercifully gives us Christ to be our valued treasure. Things like “mommy guilt” cannot crush us because Christ was crushed on the cross in our stead.” [page 64]

“What if God wants to fellowship with us right where we are – even in the commotion of ordinary life? Most assuredly he does” [page 74-75]

“There are times when we are not motivated by the love of Christ, and we fume at our children, not because they break God’s law but because they break ours.” [page 89]

“Ironclad faith is not forged by considering how much more pleasant my earthly circumstances are than someone else’s. “It could always be worse” cannot sustain my fragile heart. Only hope in God’s enduring faithfulness is a shatterproof assurance.” [page 90]

“We need to humbly rend our heart before we rend out Internet search engines searching for answers.” [page 102]

“By his grace, God forces our frustrating circumstances to bow to his gospel purposes in our life.” [page 107]

See why I’ve loved this book?

I contacted Crossway to see if they would be able to give away a couple copies to you and they happily agreed. There are 3 options for entry below: {you might need to wait 2 seconds for things to load…}
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Happy Monday, my friends. Stay near to Jesus today.

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